In yesterday’s post, I shared my journal story of the hike that my wife, Linda, and I took in the Poconos in August 2012. The day after I made that entry in my journal, God was still speaking to me through the experience that Linda and I had at the stream. As I sat down to write in my journal on that August morning, I recalled that since the night before, a verse had been running through my head. That verse was Proverbs 14:12, which says, “There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.”
On August 30, 2012, I wrote in my journal:
This verse was one of the lessons that we learned at the stream on Tuesday. The tree trunk that lay across the stream seemed like a good way to get across without getting wet, but it was narrow and could easily have rolled, with the result of falling into shallow water full of large rocks. We could have been seriously hurt. Then there was the possibility of stepping on the larger rocks to get across, but they were wet and covered with moss, so we would likely have slipped. So the ways that “seemed right” to us could have led to a problem.
The best way to get to the other side of that stream that day was to go straight through. When life presents us with trials, with difficult circumstances, we often look for a way around them. We look for a way that seems right to us. But just as the best way through that stream was to take off our shoes and walk through the icy water, the best way to get through trials, through difficult circumstances, is to go straight through them. We need to trust God to lead us in the way that is His. His ways are always better than our ways.
In my journal, I thanked God that Linda and I took the way through the stream. It wasn’t easy, but it was God’s way, so it was safe. And through the experience of walking through that icy water, God taught us a lesson in life that we will not soon forget. He taught us that, in our lives, in our marriages, in whatever we do, we should always seek His ways and not the ways that seem right to us.
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